Maintaining a healthy long distance relationship can be a challenge without the right long distance relationship advice.  It takes two mature people who are able to communicate in order to make it work.  It will also take some sound long distance relationship advice, and that’s where I come in.

In this article I’ve outlined some long distance relationship advice that you can do to make your relationship not only survive, but thrive.  I’ve also compiled a few of the most common problems couples face and how to avoid falling into the same traps in your relationship.  

The first part of the long distance relationship advice you and your partner need to do to ensure the continued strength of your relationship is to make sure you are both on the same page.  Make sure you agree on whether or not you have an exclusive relationship. If one partner thinks it’s ok to date while you are apart and the other one is staying monogamous, the relationship is doomed from the start.

For the most part, a couple won’t even contemplate a monogamous long distance relationship unless both parties feel the relationship has the potential to be  a long term one.  There is no sense making this type of commitment unless you both feel that the other person might be ‘the one’.  

Another bit of long distance relationship advice you and your partner need to do is make sure you have good communication skills.  When you are far away from each other for extended periods of time, and you can’t have physical contact, you will have to rely solely on your communication skills to continue to build your relationship.

That is why long distance relationships, when they last, are some of the best relationships around.  The couple has to learn to communicate effectively to make it work, and they don’t get distracted by all the physical attraction. They are able to connect on a deeper level which can often lead to a more fulfilling relationship.

If you are an insecure person, though most people won’t admit it if they are, you should avoid getting involved in a long distance relationship.  Being in this type of relationship requires a great amount of trust, typically people who are insecure see a threat everywhere, even where there isn’t one.  

If you and your partner are overly suspicious, not only will your relationship be a constant battle, it will also be unlikely to work.  No good relationship can be based on suspicion and insecurities.  

You and your partner also need to be careful of the temptation to have a ‘fling’ with someone while away from your partner.  Unless you both agree in advance that some extracurricular activity is ok (and if that’s the case why bother pursuing a long distance relationship in the first place) than you should stay faithful to your partner.

If you want to maintain your long distance relationship you have to know ahead of time that it will be a challenge and you and your partner both have to be committed to making it work, but if you follow my  long distance relationship advice you and your partner have a real shot of having a great, long term loving relationship.

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By CAREEREALISM-Approved Expert, Debra Wheatman What your body conveys can tell far more about your feelings than you suspect. How you stand, your eye.

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I’m about to let you know the real reasons why men in relationships so often act this way… and what to do about it.

I’m also about to explain why so many women end up in unfulfilling relationships with men who “TAKE TAKE TAKE”, and why these women so often end up getting little back for all their efforts.

First off, tell me if this sounds at all familiar…

You meet a great guy and you start dating.

The “chemistry” is simply AMAZING and you can’t believe how into connecting and sharing he is…even on that emotional level where other men often fall flat.

You spend time together and keep growing closer, and you start to believe that maybe you’ve finally found that amazing friend, companion and lover all in one.

He’s so open and caring… listens and pays attention to you and what’s going with you in a way that few men you’ve met can.

Your connection is unbelievable.

You both know you can count on each other in ways that feel like you’re closer than you have been with a man in a long, long time.

Since you’re both so close, he starts to depend on you for a few things in his life… and you’re happy to help him since you really care about him and are a generous and loving person.

But, as time goes on, something starts to slowly “shift.”

It starts with small things…

He starts acting a little differently, and stops doing a lot of the things he used to do that made you admire and respect him.

Somehow, he seems less confident, present, and “connected” with you.

And then you notice…

There’s something different about how he depends on you, and it sets off your “radar.”

You start to wonder if how he is with you is entirely healthy.

You start to feel “drained” with him and with the relationship more and more… but you know that a relationship is about give and take, so you keep giving and have faith that things are going fine.

More time passes and you start to notice something else…

You see that he isn’t becoming more appreciative of all the things you’re doing for
him and your relationship.

In fact, it feels like he’s starting to take more and more of it for granted.

Actually, he seems LESS APPRECIATIVE of you and your relationship in general.

He starts asking and depending on you even more, without any real thanks or reciprocation.

The more he does this, the more you sense that there’s a kind of needy “childishness” inside him that’s becoming clearer.

You want to be there for him and be a great partner… but you also want that fun, strong, playful, loving, confident man back who was there before things changed.

With all this going on, you’re not exactly sure of what to do about it or what’s going on for him that’s making him act this way.

He doesn’t seem to pay you the same attention, give the same affection and support that you give him, and it’s starting to feel unfair and bother you.

Your relationship is starting to feel like it’s all about making sure “he’s” happy.

Which of course doesn’t leave much room for what’s going on for YOU.

You know things can’t go on this way if your relationship is going to work and be something worthwhile and “real.”

He’s got to see what’s going on and stop being so self-involved.

You know that he’s had some challenges in his own life and maybe he just doesn’t see what’s going on. So, you decide to not make a big deal out of it. But, you know that something needs to change… soon.

So, you finally decide to talk to him about what’s going on.

You go over in your head again and again what you’re going to say to him and what’s been going on for the last several months.

You’re sure that he’ll see what’s been happening and all the things you’ve been doing for him and the relationship, and he’ll give you some understanding.

But when you talk to him, it doesn’t work out this way… AT ALL.

Instead of hearing you and your intentions to get things back to a better place between you two, he just becomes frustrated, irritated and
DEFENSIVE with you.

Instead of hearing you, he makes you feel like you’re “nagging” him and creating “drama.”

He even acts like you’re the one being ridiculous and withdraws from you.

Does any of this sound familiar to you?

This situation where you know you’re giving and getting less than nothing back STINKS.

And unfortunately, it’s a common experience lots of women have in relationships with men.

Now, there are about 50 things I could tell you about how men are at fault and create these problems for themselves and for you in your relationship.

But the reality is that you’ve already spent hours thinking about this before and have a lot of your own ideas about it.

That is partially why I’m NOT going to talk about what’s going on with men here and what to do about it.

At least not yet.

Right now we’re going to talk about YOU.

Why?

Because thinking about YOURSELF is the first step towards real GROWTH and AWARENESS in EVERY RELATIONSHIP you have in your life.

You could spend days, weeks, months or years worrying about a man, what he thinks, and why he does the things he does.

But if you want to be smart…

And you want relationships to start “working” for you, instead of seeming like a never ending source of frustration and disappointment trying to get a man to make the relationship work…

Then you’ll make sure you have things handled for yourself first.

And that way you’ll have the CERTAINTY that only comes from understanding what’s happening in the relationship around you… and what YOU need to do in each situation that comes up with a man.

THE ONE QUESTION THAT CAN CHANGE YOUR RELATIONSHIP
WITH A MAN INSTANTLY

If you’re at the most basic levels of what I call “emotional maturity” in your life, then you’ve started to recognize something very important and significant about yourself…

You’ve recognized that you have a few PATTERNS coming up in your relationships.

Of course, some of these patterns are positive traits that bring benefits, center around your personal preferences, and involve things you bring into your life CONSCIOUSLY and for good reason.

But the reality is these aren’t the only kind of patterns you have in your life.

You also have a special group of “negative patterns.”

Patterns that you save just for MEN.

So, let me ask you a very simple question.

It’s a question that could very well change the course of your love life IMMEDIATELY once you answer it.

Here’s the question – Do you know your “negative patterns” in relationships with men?

You might have a few of these that you already know about that you can rattle off in your head right now without really thinking about it.

THESE ARE NOT THE PATTERNS I’M LOOKING FOR TO IMPROVE YOUR LOVE LIFE.

You already know about these patterns and this knowledge still doesn’t seem to be helping you if you’re running into the same issues and situations again and again.

Which is why it’s obvious that “what” you already know isn’t going to help you learn and grow past these situations with men for good.

You need to expand your PERSPECTIVE.

That’s why I’m looking for the patterns that you DON’T see right now, and that you aren’t CONSCIOUS of.

Here’s where we’re going to take ACTION…

Right now, I want you to give yourself the time and space for the next 5 minutes to think about your own patterns in your past or present relationships with men.

And, I want you to put everything else aside just for a few short moments while you focus on YOURSELF.

By the way, if you don’t have time to do this now, then you probably never will.

And I know it’s a simple question, but the AWARENESS and GROWTH that can come from your answer is what’s going to change your love life immediately.

So now that you’ve made the time, I want you to think about the following -

I want you to come up with at least TWO of your own negative relationship patterns with men.

And I don’t just mean patterns that are really about men… such as “I always pick men who are clueless about loving relationships.”

This is focusing on HIM, not YOU.

I mean something like “I meet men and quickly spend all my time with them. But soon I see that I’ve “lost myself” and I am not able to have a healthy balance. And inevitably, we end up breaking up and I resent all the time I spent on the relationship and him, instead of spending more time on myself.”

That’s one common example lots of women have experienced.

Now, it’s your turn.

I want you to come up with 2 other patterns that have to do with YOU and things that come from YOUR THINKING or BEHAVIOR.

I’m going to give you a few minutes to do it now. I’m going to give you another minute to make sure you have your two patterns.

OK. So now you have two clear patterns of your own in your head.

Take out a pen and a piece of paper right now and write down the patterns you identified.

Do it now, I’ll wait.

Good.

I want you to keep this piece of paper somewhere you can look at it again in a few days or weeks.

It will be important to look at what you wrote down again at least once in the next few days.

DEVELOPING CONSCIOUSNESS TO MOVE PAST YOUR NEGATIVE AND SELF-DEFEATING “PATTERNS” IN RELATIONSHIPS WITH MEN

Now that you’ve got your two negative patterns, here’s where things are going to start coming together for you…

First, I need you to get away from a dangerous kind of thinking that ALL WOMEN engage in when it comes to men, dating and relationships.

I call it “All-or-Nothing Thinking.”

Do you know any women who talk about how their relationship is hopeless and a complete failure…

And then a few hours or days later they have shifted 180 degrees to where EVERYTHING is great?

What does this say about the woman who thinks and feels this way?

What kind of relationship and communication “skills” does a woman like this have?

And how do you think a man experiences this kind of thinking and behavior… and what does it say to him about a woman?

Of course, this is an extreme example of “All-or-Nothing Thinking.”

Unfortunately, the more common “All-or-Nothing Thinking” is subtle and difficult to recognize.

Especially when YOU are the one having the thoughts.

So, let me ask you…

When you look at your pattern, is there a negative trait or habit of yours that stands out as the one that gets you into trouble the most?

I’m certain there is. I want you to identify at least one of your greatest WEAKNESSES that shows up in your life through your negative patterns.

I’ll give you a minute to write this down next to the pattern it’s associated with.

Now there’s something I want you to think about…

It makes sense to cut this negative trait or habit that’s associated with your pattern out of your relationship and behavior with a man… right?

It’s caused a lot of these problems… right?

If you cut these traits or qualities out of the way you are in a relationship with a man, then things will be better… right?

WRONG… What if the problems that come up in your negative pattern are caused by these traits?

And what if the traits in your negative pattern didn’t represent just your personal WEAKNESSES?

What if they ALSO represented your personal STRENGTHS at the same time?

If you were thinking that you should get rid of the trait or quality entirely that’s involved in your negative pattern so that things will work better in the future… then you’re going to that place of “All-or-Nothing Thinking.”

Talk about throwing out the baby with the bath water.

Over the years I’ve recognized that there’s a fascinating mistake TONS of people make in relationships, in business, and in every aspect of life…

When something isn’t working and they want to fix a problem, they don’t look at the entire “system” around them.

Instead, they focus their attention on the “symptoms” they see, in isolation.

Some people complain about “Western Medicine” having the same shortcoming. That it only addresses symptoms, instead of taking a “holistic” approach to how everything works together.

Anyway… when a person is trying to fix a problem in a relationship, by not seeing the entire “system” going on around them, they can’t see how all the elements are inter-connected.

So, when they go to make a change, they think they can change what’s related to the symptoms and everything will work better.

This is like thinking blowing your nose will cure a cold.

What’s worse, oftentimes the things that people change not only don’t work to fix the problem…

But ends up making things WORSE by affecting all the other related and inter connected things that WERE WORKING.

Talk about COUNTERPRODUCTIVE…  Don’t start solving problems and changing your relationship when you can only see the “symptoms.” There’s a better way.

You need to start looking at the whole “system” of how you and a man connect and communicate in your relationship.

You need to develop your own “holistic” approach.

Then you’ll have the PERSPECTIVE to make choices and take action that will bring more connection and understanding into your life.

So how can you start to see your own relationship with a man as the “system” that it is?  And how can you avoid the dead end strategy of trying to cover up the “symptoms”? Here’s a step towards this that you can take RIGHT NOW…

I’m going to get you out of the habit of using your destructive “All-or-Nothing Thinking.”

I want you to look at your trait or traits again that were your own WEAKNESSES in your negative relationship pattern.

Now I want you to try something that might seem strange at first.

I want you to identify at least one way in which your trait or habit in your negative relationship pattern is also a STRENGTH.

I’ll give you a minute to see how the very trait that you just identified as a WEAKNESS is also a STRENGTH.

I want you to write the STRENGTH down right now next to the pattern it’s associated with.

Go ahead. I’ll give you a few minutes.

………………………………..

OK, good.

There’s a lot of power and AWARENESS created in what you just did when you think about it – IF you stay aware of this when you’re interacting with a man in your relationship.

When you see how your WEAKNESSES, that you’ve been giving yourself a hard time about and trying to figure out how to get rid of, are also part of your STRENGTHS… things you never could have understood will start to become clear to you.

Challenges, issues, attitudes and hurtful things that a man brings to you that relate to your patterns, and these traits will start to look differently to you…

And you’ll start to have an amazing sense of CLARITY about what’s the best thing to do for you, for him, and for your relationship.

A “STRANGE TRUTH” ABOUT THE PEOPLE AND RELATIONSHIPS YOU ATTRACT IN LIFE AND LOVE

You’ve got some basic tools to work with now to understand more about what’s going on with you and your relationship.

But it really only starts here.

Are you CLEAR on how these 2 patterns come up in your life?

Do you know how to avoid “All or Nothing Thinking” the next time it comes up and tries to create DISTANCE between you and a man?

Do you know where these thoughts come from and what to do to stay conscious and overcome the negative aspects of your other destructive relationship patterns?

Do you know how to guide a man to start doing these same things to improve HIMSELF and the way he is in your relationship, so you don’t have to try and convince him of what’s going on that he can’t see or isn’t paying attention to?

Most women who aren’t in a happy, healthy, loving, lasting relationship don’t have this knowledge and the ability to stay connected with a man that comes along with it.

The strange truth is, patterns aren’t just coincidences in your life.

They keep repeating in your life for a reason.

What are the lessons that keep coming up for you in your love life that you can’t learn from where you are today, but keep coming at you?

The reality is that you have a choice…

You can keep repeating these patterns, and experiencing the pain and frustration that comes with them again and again…

This is the “easy” choice that doesn’t ask or require you to learn and grow at all.

OR…

You can create a “shift” in your life.

You can choose to have more AWARENESS and more GROWTH… which will of course bring new ways of seeing things, and best of all, NEW RESULTS in your relationship.

The choice is yours right now.

If you’ve ever wondered why you get “stuck” with a man once you get to a certain level of connection and intimacy… and then things seem to go backwards and he withdraws… then this program is going to change your life and your relationship.

One of the most critical things that’s going on inside a relationship when a “casual”, or even a committed relationship, starts to go wrong, even though there’s no lack of love or caring between the man and woman, is FEAR.

And I don’t just mean YOUR FEARS… I’m talking about a HIS FEARS, too.

There’s a reason why most men pull away and sabotage perfectly good, loving relationships with women.

And there’s a reason why YOUR FEARS are only making these things with a man WORSE.

There are clear steps that you can take to change your love life and relationship, no matter where you are right now with a man.

Shifting your PERSPECTIVE and becoming MORE CONSCIOUS is your first step… some of which we’ve touched on here.

You can stop the unnecessary PATTERNS.

You can come to terms with, and understand, the FEARS.

And you can find out, once and for all, why it is that men so often put up RESISTANCE to becoming more connected, closer and MORE COMMITTED with YOU on a physical and emotional level.

Don’t let go of this opportunity to have LASTING CHANGE and IMPROVEMENT to the quality of your love life and all your relationships.

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Did your ex just break up with you? And you may be trying to write love poems or maybe you’re in the marketplace looking for books on relationships? But how do you choose the best books on relationships? Here are a few tips on how to choose the best books on relationships.  And the answer will surprise you.  Read on…

First, don’t be fooled by fancy letters after an author’s name.  There are many people who find school to be a convenient escape from real life.  Instead of engaging with people, they spend their time in the classroom and library.  As a result, they end up with a lot of letters after their names when they hit age 35.  They use their degrees to indicate that they have “expert knowledge” of a situation.  But does their expertise work in the real world?

Instead, you should look for books on relationships by authors who have been in the trenches.  They’ve either put a bad relationship back together themselves or they have helped countless buddies do the same.  These aren’t therapy patients that come in for the “fifty minute hour” either.  These relationships are those of people the author cares deeply about.

Next, you want to find books that don’t boil down to “put the relationship aside for 30 days and work on yourself during that period.”  This is all most “save your relationship” or “get your ex back” reports say.  Many of the ebooks on the market turn that concept into 50 page documents.  These are just pieces of fluff and don’t deserve your attention – or your money.

Instead, you should look for a book that will give you new information; information that your friends can’t give you.

For instance, will it give you specific techniques to get relief from your pain? Will the book tell you what women crave the most?  Will it give you a step by step guide for how to give it to her?  Will the book show you how to recover from an affair?

You want to find books on relationships that come recommended by a wide variety of people, in various situations, from all walks of life.

Finally, look at who is recommending the book.  Do the testimonials seem a little generic?

There are many books on relationships on the market.  Unfortunately, most of them are drivel because they weren’t written by someone in the trenches.  As a result, they have generic advice that could be best summed up in a paragraph or two.  Then, what recommendations the book can get are generic in nature, because the book really has nothing going for it.

Finding the best books on relationships can take a little work.  But, everything about relationships are work.  Shouldn’t you invest the time and money in the very best book out them?

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For lots of women who don’t know how to handle these Moments… they find that the man in their life doesn’t seem to get that it’s in these tough moments that the real “gold” of their relationship comes to the surface. Instead… the man in their life simply PULLS AWAY.

Do you find that you don’t know what to do in these Moments and that men PULL AWAY from you? … Or do you know how to turn these Moments into the opportunities they are for you to actually learn more about each other and GROW CLOSER?

I want to show you how to break out of the PATTERNS that prevent you from bringing the right man into your life and creating a lasting relationship.

Here is something fascinating…  Of the thousands of different problems and issues that get in most women’s way with men and relationships…

What’s at the ROOT of these problems really boils down to a few key Moments and how you handle them. Knowing this now, I want you to tell me…

Do you find that your relationships always seem to fall apart in the same way, or in similar Moments each time?

Do men have common ways that they react and respond to you that seems to make it impossible to make a real relationship work?

And do you find that there are a few of the same situations or moments that keep popping up in your love life just when you think things are going well?

Here are a few of the Moments I spell out clearly in detail and show you how to handle each one with your man so that he grows even closer to you in each one…

Moment #1: Meeting A Man & Catching His Interest

You see him from across the room. He’s your type. It seems like he noticed you, but he never makes it over to talk to you. Will you miss out on this chance to meet? How can you catch his interest so he comes up and talks to you?

If you’re not good at getting out and meeting men, let alone getting a man’s attention once you find him, you’ve probably spent too many months and years alone and wondering,

“Where are all the good and available men?” Don’t keep wondering. In this Moment I show you the secret “cues” for flirting with a man verbally and non-verbally that
attract him and signal to him that you’re available but not desperate.

The reality is that there are a lot of attractive, single men out there in the world.

If you’re single and on your own, it’s time you did something about it and stopped wasting your precious time alone.

Moment #2: He’s “Hot & Cold”

You’ve been dating a man or are in a relationship, but he swings from making plans and spending time with you and wanting to be with you… to not calling, acting strange and distant and just not being present or responsive.

You know something is off and isn’t right, but you don’t know what it is.

When you try to bring it up, he doesn’t have anything to say and gives no explanation. Instead of listening and talking to you about it, he ends up going cold again and pulls away. You know it’s no way to be together and grow closer or move forward in your relationship, but you don’t know what to do about it and why it’s happening in the first place.

Most women in this situation accidentally do and say the exact things that take this Moment and turn it into something that pushes a man farther away, turns him off and shuts down the doors of communication on both sides.

Don’t stay in the dark on what this Moment is really about with a man. Learn what it means when a man is hot and cold, and what the exact steps you can take to get rid of this annoying pattern and bring you and the man in your life close and together for good.

There are 4 reasons a man acts hot and cold, one of which has to do with a man’s own issues.

It’s time you knew what these are so you can prevent this pattern from being a problem in your relationships in the future.

Moment #3: How To Tell If He’s Interested

There’s a man you run into over and over again — at work, in your social circle, or somewhere you visit frequently. He’s friendly and engaging. You’re definitely
interested in him.

You aren’t sure if he’s interested in you. Sometimes he seems to be flirting, but he NEVER ASKS YOU OUT.

What’s up with that? How can you tell for sure whether a man is really interested in you for something more than just “friendly conversation”?

Or maybe you’ve had a situation where a man makes plans with you, but you’re not really sure if it’s supposed to be a “date.”

Does he consider you more than just a friend? How would you know? You don’t want to end up misunderstanding the situation or getting your hopes up…  In this moment, you’ll need to learn to gauge a man’s interest, based on what he says and does…
because whether you know it or not, men DON’T talk about their feelings right away when they’re interested.

Instead, they give subtle SIGNS… If you don’t know what these signs are, and how
to both read them and respond, it’s going to be very difficult for you to know what’s going on and how to take things to the next level and grow close with a man.

I show you the 4 signs you need to know about and look out for to gauge a man’s interest, and what to do when you see the signs he’s interested.

Moment #4: He Says He’s “Not Ready”

This Moment always seems to happen right when you feel that you’re getting CLOSER to a man.

You’ve had a great weekend away together, a great series of dates, you just told him you love him, or the intensity of his feelings has suddenly increased. You’re feeling great-adored, hopeful and excited.

Then BAM! Suddenly he tells you that he’s been thinking about things, and he’s just NOT READY to move the relationship forward.

He’s not ready for the kind of commitment you want.
He’s not ready for a real relationship. He’s just not ready to start dating again, after all…  You’re devastated. What should you do?

It’s in this Moment that most women don’t understand WHY a man is saying this in the first place, and what it really means.

It’s also the place where lots of women have the wheels come off out of frustration.

Instead, you can use this Moment as a great opportunity to avoid falling into the trap that this pulls lots of women into half-committed relationships for months or years and has them arguing with a man and trying to PURSUE HIM or convince him to feel differently.

I’ll show you in this Moment how it’s really an opportunity to communicate YOUR NEEDS about only being with a man who knows what he wants and chooses you… rather than pushing back against him.

Incredibly, this is exactly what will pull a man into shape and get him to recognize the value of what he’s got in being with you. But you have to know HOW to do this, and you have to really be truly committed to loving yourself and getting YOUR NEEDS met, or else it won’t work and will back-fire.

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These are just a few of the Moments we are talking about.

If you’re ready to finally get those problem areas that keep coming up for you with men out of your way for good…

And you’re ready to finally give yourself the chance you deserve at a great relationship and love…

Don’t let the right man and relationship fall apart or slip away because you simply didn’t take the time to learn what really works with a man. And don’t cheat yourself out of finally being able to create a relationship that not only lasts…. but truly caters to YOUR NEEDS, not just your man’s needs.

Are you willing to miss this chance at moving past the places and patterns you’ve been stuck at with men?

Or are you ready for the real hands-on tips and tools that will have you moving through these Moments that used to break apart your relationships with ease?

You’re worth it, and so is the relationship you start and create with the man in your life.

So do yourself a favour, and make sure you know how to handle each of the most critical Moments that are sure to come up with the man in your life… and move through each one smoothly and beautifully.

Change your love life forever.

Relationship Advice Center

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